Ce poate fi mai frumos si mai pur decat vocea unui copil?

Lost generation

(thank you, Sandra, for a great video!)

Intelepciune

Cuvinte de intelepciune. Stiu ca e un citat popular, insa "ne mai misca"? Ne gandim oare ca vorbele astea sunt atat de adevarate????


- Ai vrea sa-mi iei un interviu, deci… zise Dumnezeu.
- Daca ai timp… i-am raspuns. Dumnezeu a zambit.
- Timpul meu este eternitatea… Ce intrebari ai vrea sa-mi pui?
- Ce te surprinde cel mai mult la oameni? Dumnezeu mi-a raspuns:
- Faptul ca se plictisesc de copilarie, se grabesc sa creasca, iar apoi tanjesc iar sa fie copii; ca isi pierd sanatatea pentru a face bani...iar apoi isi pierd banii pentru a-si recapata sanatatea. Faptul ca se gandesc cu teama la viitor si uita prezentul, iar astfel nu traiesc nici prezentul nici viitorul; ca traiesc ca si cum nu ar muri niciodata si mor ca si cum nu ar fi trait.
Dumnezeu mi-a luat mana si am stat tacuti un timp.
Apoi am intrebat:
- Ca parinte, care ar fi cateva dintre lectiile de viata pe care ai dori sa le invete copiii tai?
- Sa invete ca dureaza doar cateva secunde sa deschida rani profunde in inima celor pe care ii iubesc...si ca dureaza mai multi ani pentru ca acestea sa se vindece; sa invete ca un om bogat nu este acela care are cel mai mult, ci acela care are nevoie de cel mai putin; sa invete ca exista oameni care ii iubesc dar pur si simplu inca nu stiu sa-si exprime sentimentele; sa invete ca doi oameni se pot uita la acelasi lucru si ca pot sa-l vada in mod diferit; sa invete ca nu este suficient sa-i ierte pe ceilalti si ca, de asemenea, trebuie sa se ierte pe ei insisi.
- Multumesc pentru timpul acordat, am zis umil. Ar mai fi ceva ce ai dori ca oamenii sa stie? Dumnezeu m-a privit zambind si a spus:
- Doar faptul ca sunt aici, intotdeauna.

Octavian Paler

How does COMPLICATED become SIMPLE?

How can I choose where to live in the future? Have any ideas to share?


Oradea - my hometown



Timisoara - where I spent my university years



Paris - the city I currently live in

Le reste du temps...

This song gives me a feeling of GOOD...PEACE...LOVE:)

I am sure now how much an internship outside Europe would have opened my eyes! Now I understand all of you who advised me to do so! But then as well it might not have been what I needed now for myself.

Anyway, let’s not switch subjects. Let’s stick to my trip in UAE. This week spent here has been absolutely charming! I’ve had the possibility to grow personally and professionally. I am not only the owner of a great overview on how an office of a multinational is being run from the HR perspective, but I also got the view on this region, its business, its strategies to attract foreigners to work and invest here. I had a “professional guide” in Nader (HR manager for ALU UAE and Qatar), who has talked enormously to me about the country and the region, the problems on the market, how the crisis affects them, why he is doing HR and what can you learn out of it! Wow, it has been amazing to work at such a high level with a great professional!

I’ve also had the chance to get close to Jinane, a French-Palestinian girl who lived all her life in Saudi Arabia! She studied in France for 5 years and now she is married, has a sweet little kid and lives here! It is amazing how much energy and personal approach I could get from her! I also understood better the people in the region; we’ve had talks about religion, life in different parts of the world, future goals, food, weather, books, etc. It is also incredible how fast we got close and how helpful and supportive she was.
















More than this, I had the chance to see 2 amazing cities. Abu Dhabi is more like a “family city”, pretty quiet and relaxing. It is also rather small, just a few streets, “locals” would say (“locals”=10-20% of the population, as majority of UAE inhabitants are expats, mostly from Pakistan, India or Philippines). On the other hand, Dubai is extremely “posh”, high-class, extravagant and fancy. I’ve had the best guide ever in Dubai and I’ve enjoyed seeing “another world”. Tops on my list of best things I’ve seen in UAE: Emirates Palace Hotel (a huge and beautiful hotel built to imitate a real palace; Durj Al Arab (the most expensive and famous hotel in the world); Atlantis (probably the second best hotel in the world, designed all around the aquatic theme); Durj Al Dubai (the highest building in the world – not yet finished, but it has more than 900 m high); Dubai Mall (the biggest mall in the world). As you can notice, Dubai and UAE is all about being the best and the first…mostly in hotels and malls! If you ask anyone what you should visit there, it would be out of these 2 categories! No museums included :)…well, the country only exists for 30 years and has been built by foreigners!

















I had so many a-ha moments in this trip that I can’t believe it has been only a week! So many things happened that I found it hard to catch up and arrange my memories in little “drawers”! In any way, it has been a beautiful journey teaching me about breaking barriers, breaking thoughts, thinking behind the line, asking for comfort and accepting differences! I have challenged again my view on my next choices and new criteria are getting in the picture.

And no matter what, the feeling I have now is: “mda, I could live there!” :)
Enjoy the pictures and be sure that I brought sun with me to Europe! We need it to be sunny and smiley each day! So, have a “smiley day”!


















LATER UPDATE:
Burj al Arab is the hotel and Burj al Dubai is the tower, building, highest in the world! Thanks Dragos :) I knew I mixed them up!

“Live and always discover”

I’ve always loved traveling! If you checked my travels map you would see I tried to explore each opportunity to see more places, more cultures, new lands, and new stories.

I’ve been given a great chance in my internship and in my project: I am traveling for a business trip to UAE (United Arab Emirates). Actually, while writing these words, I am flying towards Abu Dhabi, where I will spend 5 days! Of course, I cannot miss seeing Dubai, so I arranged that the last 2 days of my trip, the weekend actually, to be spent visiting one of the most famous cities in Middle East!

Everyone kept asking me if I am excited or scared about the trip. Now, I should say it is both of them :) I feel scared for going there alone! But I am more than this excited as it is my first time out of Europe (ok, the Asian side of Istanbul does not count much!). It will be a short time, for sure, to get to know the culture, but it is amazing that I can at least get a glimpse! It is something so different from “our world”, from Europe, from what I’ve seen until now! Will I like it? Will it feel strange? Will it feel cold or too much?

Will write impressions as soon as I get to form some!
Keep fingers crossed, this is such an important part in my project and I have to perform at high standards!

Greetings from the Middle East :)

Later update:
I have to write these thoughts now, when I am lying in my hotel room in Abu Dhabi! First of all, the flight was amazing! From the fact that each of us had our own TV and the latest movies or music; to the fact that you could watch a live camera with the landscape while flying; or to the fact that food and serving was excellent (we even got ice cream); or the fact that they even gave us pillows, socks or covers for your eyes so you can sleep :P…
I arrived at the airport where a lady was waiting for me (everything was arranged by the hotel); she took me through all the procedures (including eye scan, where they actually made me look to a machine and they made a digital scan of my eyes!); the airport is packed and crowded, but amazingly beautiful! Everything is in the Middle-East design…old and new!

But when I got the first “taste” of the city, I must say that the air reminded me of Istanbul! The city looks amazing – lights, palm trees, lovely, rich houses, huge sky-scrapers! It feels like another world…well, it is! And I started loving it! It is so much different from Europe!
Even later update:
I am now writing from the Alcatel-Lucent office in Abu Dhabi. I did not manage to get internet until now to post my thoughts. So I just wanna add how amazing this city looks like in the daylight as well! It is a small city, actually! Just a few streets! But inhabited by about 1 million people, out of which only 10% is local! This place booms with multiculturalism!
I can’t wait for the evening to go for a walk! Ah, and it is so so so so warm! You can wear shirts and you can actually swim in the sea :) It is like summer! I would have never believed that I would have lunch outside, on a terrace, in February, with the HR manager of Alcatel-Lucent UAE and Qatar!

Imagine: a 24-years-old “kid” gets sent to an amazing country to work with the people here! It is an amazing chance that I would not have imagined living some years back! Why are our hopes so low, I wonder?

Gros bisous from a hot, hot country! Soon, pictures!

“ Nu tot ce zboara, se mananca”

…in literal translation, “not everything that flies should be eaten”. But at least it can be tried out! One more lesson on my board, one more try not succeeded. One more choice between Yes or No – and it is No. I should stop trying once and for all and start succeeding!

But then again, as I said before also, you only get what you NEED in life, which should not always be what you WANT!